Finnegan playing poker, 1991 |
Humphrey loves hearing the story of Finnegan’s ongoing social
project that challenged gender stereotypes. Since he was a puppy, Finnegan was
drawn to anything bright pink. Whatever it was, if it was fuchsia, he had to get
his paws on it. Lucky for Finnegan, his accommodating Guardian obliged, and
made a point of ensuring his possessions, when possible, were pink. That
included leads, harnesses and collars.
Every so often, people in the park would stop, and say
things like, “Pretty dog! What’s her name?”
“His name is
Finnegan,” Guardian would respond.
On several occasions, the Guardian found herself scolded – “How
could you put a boy in a pink collar! That’s terrible!”
You’d never hear such responses to a female dog in a blue
collar! So Finnegan made a point of clarifying that he was merely expressing
his preference for pink to challenge people’s gender stereotypes. Pink as a girls’ color
is a Western construct. The opposite is the case in Poland ,
and even India !
Moreover, the fact that North Americans believe it’s problematic for a boy to
wear pink (and not a girl to wear blue) is an expression of how society
continues to subjugate women. It’s an insult for a boy to do girl things, but certainly not the other way around. This reminded Finnegan of the
opening lyrics to one of Madonna’s hit songs:
Girls can wear jeansAnd cut their hair short
Wear shirts and boots
'Cause it's OK to be a boy
But for a boy to look like a girl is degrading
'Cause you think that being a girl is degrading
That was but one of the many important lessons Finnegan taught
those around him. Humphrey encourages those who remember him to post comments!
Finnegan on the picket line, 1997 teachers' work stoppage |
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